Friday, July 23, 2010

We have lost him

The unimaginable has happened. A paper-ready family has stepped up to adopt our beautiful boy. I just found out, via EMAIL, not an hour ago. There, I said it. It is done. He will have a family and that is all that matters. Sure, we are TOTALLY and COMPLETELY DEVASTATED that it is not to be us, but the important thing is that he will grow up loved and protected, and not wasted in some miserable institution. We love him so much and we know that God has big plans for his future.

To you, Tanner...please know that we fought very hard for you for a very long time and that we will ALWAYS love and cherish you. You will hold a special place in our hearts FOREVER.

19 comments:

  1. This must be so difficult for you... I am so sorry. That you can see the bright side for Tanner shows your deep love for him.

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  2. awwwww hun I am soo very sorry, God Knows you love him and Some day in Heaven you will get to Hug Tanner and he will tell you himself that he knows and felt your love! God Bless Tami!
    I love you Hun!
    Elaine

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  3. ((hugs)) he is a very special little guy to have 2 families willing to save him. And he will know that.

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  4. {{{HUGS}}} I know how heartbroken you are that he won't be coming home to you, but as someone else said, you have the luxury of still loving him. He will know how loved he is! Now, your FIL needs to give you that money back! The whole situation is just frustrating.

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  5. I am sorry Tami, I know how much you love him and I prayed that you would get your dossier in for him. I wish the paper ready family knew how much your heart was breaking right now.

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  6. oh no so sad for you, what now for you? will you think of looking to save another child?
    what about all the donations of shoes, oh poor you having to sort through all that stuff money ect will keep you in my prayers at night through the day and always

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  7. I am so sorry to hear this. I'm glad he will have a family but sad it won't be you. And you never know, things may change so always be ready.

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  8. I am so sad for your family...I will be praying for you.

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  9. Oh no! After all you have been through trying to bring Tanner home to your family! I can't believe this has happened, that you weren't afforded that little bit of extra time to complete the necessary steps to go get him! I'm so sorry this has happened to you guys :( My heart is breaking :(

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  10. How wonderful for Tanner. He deserves a family that will love him and he gets that. He also gets to leave his current home quickly. That is awesome.

    Perhaps, God closed this door but there is a window open somewhere. Look for it!

    Jan

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  11. I know you need time grieving your loss and I'm very sorry for you, but I'm also happy for him who will not need to see the inside of the institution. Maybe, like Jan said, a window is open. Maybe sweet Anne-Marie is waiting for you?

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  13. I'm so sorry Tami. I can't imagine how sad you must be. Wish I could do something for you. Hugs.

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  14. thinking of you hope your ok

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  15. I'm sorry. There must be another boy for you out there. Just try again.

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  16. Dear Family, We are sorry for your loss and hope time is healing some wounds. We too lost a little boy, who we hosted for 10 weeks and fell in love with. We were as you say, devastated. 2 years now have passed and we think of him often but understand he is well and happy. We still grieve but have been blessed by adopting 3 beautiful children since then. Things work mysteriously and we send you strength.... B&R.

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